BDSM of SEPA Social

Location: High Tides Restaurant

1067 Totem Road Bensalem, PA  

(Just north   of Northeast Philadelphia)

Cost: No Cover  Food service until 10PM
 
Description: http://www.hightidesbensalem.com/

(Michael’s Cafe and Nite Club closed so we’ve moved to High Tides.)

I want an   atmosphere where we can focus on socializing, and not so much on BDSM.

I’ll introduce you to a few people at a time, see how that goes, come back and perhaps introduce you to a few more. Many of the regulars do the same.

Maybe we can   have less of, “What are you into?” “Are you dom or sub?”   and more of getting to know the real, full person in front of you.

There will be   vanilla folks nearby, maybe even amongst us. While it isn’t just meant for   singles or people looking for a relationship, I think we often put up   roadblocks to connecting, when we focus so much on BDSM and sex.

There are   already a lot of terrific munches in private or semi-private rooms where we   can let our hair down and not worry about what we’re going to say. At this   social, I ask that you please get to know the full person. Give it a try.   Better friendships and relationships are sure to follow.

Totem Rd is off Rt 13. It’s a small road, easy to miss. As you turn into is you’ll see a, “No Outlet,” sign as a tip that you’re heading in the right direction.

When you go into the main entrance, you’ll see that the restaurant is, in a sense, split in two. o to the other side of the aquarium and look for me, Raymond. I’ll have 3 roses at one of our tables. That’s the side with the dance floor.

No fetish   wear, no toys, it’s a ‘nilla social for BDSM type folks. (note Michael’s   dress code at the end of this.)